By R.L. Morgan If you know it isnt a good match, you owe it to him to tell him and then either move on or become friends. But do so graciously, respectfully and gracefully, no matter what. Here are four ways NOT to let him know. * Via email if youve dated him more than a few times, have the guts to tell him that you arent going to see him again in person, or if thats not possible by phone. I had a lover break up with me via an email after wed dated exclusively for 7 weeks. He said he was too cowardly to do it in person! It was disrespectful and hurtful to not do it in person when wed just seen each other the day before. * After only a few minutes After 10 minutes one guy told me that he wasnt attracted to me so he was leaving. On one hand, good that he didnt waste either of our time. But he could have been more graceful than saying Im not attracted. How uncouth! * Yahoo messangerBy IM This is the modern version of the Sex and The City Berger break-up Post-It to Carrie. Tacky. A guy I had been dating for 6 weeks sent me an Instant Message breaking up with me when he knew I wouldnt be around to read it until later. Essentially, it is as classless and spineless as an email. * AWOL Not returning emails or voice mails. Ive had two guys do this, one Id dated for 6 weeks. After talking 5 or 6 times a day for 6 weeks, he suddenly didnt respond to any emails, IMs or voice mails. Hed left some clothes at my house that I wanted to return to him after I didnt hear back for a few days, and he still didnt respond. I left them on his front porch, as there was not much else I could do. Have the courage and decency to be gently honest when you release this person back into the dating pool. You will feel better about yourself, and youll leave him not hating you. R.L. Morgan, "The Dating Goddess," brings you her experience from the front line of dating after 40 -- having dated 73 men in 2 years after her 20-year marriage broke up. Read her insights and lessons to help you date more effectively. She's a bestselling author, Oprah guest, and speaker. Read all of the Dating Goddess's wisdom at Adventures in Dating After 40, http://www.DatingGoddess.com . 2006-07 RL Morgan, All rights reserved. Article Source: http://EzineArticles.com/?expert=R.L._Morgan http://EzineArticles.com/?Dating-After-40:-50-Ways-to-Leave-Your-Lover?-4-Ways-NOT-to-Leave-Your-Suitor&id=396931 online pharmacy carisoprodol
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